out.of.the.blue
In the words of George Bernard Shaw – Advice to those contemplating …(fill in as appropriate but the original was matrimony)..Don’t!
If your husband and you are busting to join EK for some crazy reason, for god’s sake wait ‘till he has the required hours (by EK reckoning) and then get him to join as a DEC. Surely you can both see the current writing as put on the wall by a conniving bunch of liars masquerading as EK "management"?