OO the Blue,
Seriously reconsider coming here and I mean seriously. The contract your old man signed is not worth the paper it is written on, conditions change monthly for the worse.
From what I hear in the woods, aviation is beginning to turn around for the better in Canada (only what i hear) and a number of Canadian jockies here are kicking themselves for leaving.
Be aware, you and your family are in the eyes of the locals "a nothing" and you have no protection whatsoever in regards to the "Law of the land". One just has to have a car accident here at no fault of your own and life as you knew it turns into a bloody nightmare.
Having utmost respect, I would strongly suggest that when your husband walks through the door next, you yell out " There is no f###**g way I am going over to that sh##hole. !!!!!!
Best of luck for your decision and if you end up here, I would say bloody good luck, actually.
Lizard