Originally Posted by
extrakid
Taking your points on board, and after discussing with my other half, we’ve decided that relocating down south makes the most sense. We’re now looking at some plausible towns to commute from.
Having done something like this myself, two things I'd try to keep in mind: (1) you don't need to complete the relocation before you start the job - knowing that the commute is just temporary makes it a bit more bearable and (2) it's worth renting for a bit if you're not sure of an area - you might be doing this anyway if you're not immediately selling your place in Scotland.
Hopefully that means that you can take a bit more time to find something you really like. Speaking with colleagues once you start will be invaluable as well.