I don't agree with your use of 'arrogant', 172_driver, but you do say it's not your first language, so no worries
A chore is something which is a bit of a nuisance that you don't enjoy having to do, but have to do repeatedly, e.g. washing the dishes, or ironing your shirts. If our car steering needed to be trimmed after every speed change to keep going straight rather than veering off to one side; that would be a chore and we would wish it could be designed-out.
That's how I view trimming. I can do it without thinking, because the SEP and MEP types I trained on, and 'my' first four commercial passenger aircraft types were all conventionally trimmed. So I learned to do it and scan for it subconsciously. But I don't enjoy having to do it, and the engineer in me always wished it could be designed-out.
Then along came Airbus and their A320 family FBW, which did just that. Happy Days
Some pilots prefer the conventional aircraft system and like to feel what the wing is doing etc., which is absolutely fine. Some drivers prefer driving with a manual gearbox and clutch, whereas others are happy with a modern electronically controlled DSG. But drivers with manual gearboxes are not necessarily better drivers than those with DSGs.
The engineer in me appreciates how Airbus designed the A320 family, and I personally am very comfortable with the FBW and its excellent integrated auto-thrust.
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