Errr thank you capt cynical, I now consider my B&* to be verbally booted.
flapsforty having reread your query, it seems that all was resolved quite nicely thank you very much. I admire the fact that you had the umm.. "balls" (am I allowed to say that?) to speak with her privately and assertively address the issue.
Small courtesies such as offering the tech crew scrumptious snackies is indeed a courtesy. Tis not kosher to
order colleagues about, no matter how famished one may be.
Anyway that's just my opinion.
SG
Edited to fix my terrible spelling.