I just tell them it is like a dance.
You need to be one with me and the bike. Go with the flow and relax....I sit in the FRONT and lead the dance.
The only issue is when the rear passenger reaches over and winds on a whole lot of throttle ........ Squeek!
....freakin' nutter....
You blokes should see Squeek ride. Absolutely sensational. I need to spend more time following him just to watch and learn.
PS: "dancing" is a lot easier with a sheila.....