Rudestuff, you really are a rude young man.
Whenever I talk to the new pilots coming through about relationships, I always say this:
If you find someone before you start your training, the relationship will last, even when you're earning the big bucks! The entire training process is long and hard. It requires a lot of attention and focus and your partner will need to understand that sometimes they will be second best to the training. If your relationship survives this, then not only can it survive anything, but it will pay off when you're earning (guess what) the big bucks!
If you find someone after your training, you'll end up like those Captains who have a girl in every city! Now I'm jealous...