Fair enough. Then I would suggest you look at getting an F1 visa for flight instruction and staying there. You can work in the US for up to 2 years as a flight instructor, enough to get an FAA ATP. A lot could change in 2 years, but you might find that's enough to get you a job, you could also get an EASA FI and use that to get a work visa or failing that marry a local and join an airline. As regards flight training: You can log time on anything with an N-number which means you can save a fortune by doing at least half your hour building on something super cheap.