well, take away the uniform and you get a regular person. no James Bond or Tom Cruise, really.
yes i would't mind getting to know one and date him if he's a fine person. but i'd say if you wanna let him come out as a regular person, you gotta treat like one! and not think him such a lord!
i'm married to one, and i knew him when he's in the school uniform! he just has to wear a different uniform for the job.