There are three types of people in aviation, those that know it, those that don't, and then there are those that think they know it. Natural curiosity makes us all want to understand what happened and that is OK (as mentioned earlier in this thread). It is also natural that over time, those that do not know aviation are usually found wanting when they have drawn their own conclusions.
Modern media is what it is, we all get to choose to engage in, and with it, as we please. Personally, there are far better avenues to invest your energy. It does help when reading forums like this to ensure you have read everything before inviting yourself in (I have made that mistake numerous times myself).
It is a tragic accident and my thoughts are with all involved. Well done to the pilot for the safe landing and I can not imagine the circumstances that scenario threw at him during those times.
Will miss you Ash, RIP to the other deceased and best of luck to all others involved in this horrific accident.