Originally Posted by
langleybaston
I have enormous sympathy with both sides of the situation.
The fact remains, how does one [of either gender or genders] start a relationship without risk? Matters have become silly despite being driven by excellent intentions to solve a real societal problem.
What qualifies a two-star to be judge and jury?
We are experiencing yet another situation of unintended consequences.
From my observations of my juniors starting relationships, it’s generally pretty bloody obvious if both sides “want it”.
and if an individual is not sure, then their advance is unlikely to be welcome…