Rex Havock ordinarily I would agree with you. However OP states that he/she is returning to a previous employer after a forced break during COVID. This implies a return to VA.
Many at VA lost their base of choice despite their seniority. The company hasn’t done a base balancing or employed into all bases in a long time. Many are commuting as they return back to the employer the previously gave soo much to. The rosters are not assisting commuters at all despite.
I understand that it’s a pilots choice to take up this employment. However as a pilot, commuting isn’t a big deal. Look at the USA - you can live anywhere and the company will assist you with commuting with flights and hotels. You can jump seat on ANY airline. That’s part of being a pilot. It’s just another aspect the career that Australian aviation has reinvented for the worst.
It really is easier to leave the airline and find a role in your home base even if it’s on different equipment and pays less. It will save your marriage and sanity.