North Pacific about 1984. Deck moving up and down 20 feet. ¼ mile vis in heavy snow. Single Phantom airborne after Bear intercept. First two passes waived off for deck out of phase. Third pass trick or treat with 800 lbs of fuel. Traps successfully but slow to throttle back in the wires. Air Boss comes up and says”602 throttle back, your not a rookie out there”. 602 replies, “Boss, do I bother you when your taking a ****?”