BTB , you are right about idenitifying people - most pruners will agree its totally un-acceptable and usually the behaviour of a coward who didnt or doesnt have the b**ls to say something to your face .
A thought for you on BALPA membership , i am an easyjet pilot and was member for 8 years , i resigned recently for various reasons .I think its sad and telling that the main thrust of your sales pitch to non members is that " you will need it in the event of your accident" . Give some reasons other than crew food and Nice hotels , ( i dont eat Mayo and like the majority of comapny pilots dont night stop in Nice) why should i join again ?
Happy flying