This should be warning for many parents who might have a child that exhibits ASD tendencies but is borderline.
Do you want to give your child that baggage, permanently on his/her my health record that could cause this kind headache in the future? Get the support and social skills training needed to let them succeed, but a diagnosis won’t change them. There are a hell of a lot of highly successful folk with ASD. Some of them good pilots too. Some probably not. Just like any other humans. Some can fly, and some can’t. That form 420 is incredible. Even an attempt at humour half way down.