It can go the other way. Tanking a Buc to the gulf in 68 back seater seemed out of touch with calls a bit. After landing changing break chute and refuelling with back seater helping we went to the mess for supper. A mess person said use the staff dining room as VIP has the feeder. Half way through the meal a steward came in and said its bleeding chaos out there they have lost a bloody admiral back seater says o dear thats me.