Vessbot, how do you recognise the need to disconnect ?
Are you able to describe the process which you use, which will always apply in every situation. If this starts with understanding the situation, then how do you understand.
To you it might be obvious, to others no so depending on the situation, experience, training - even of this can be trained at all.
How can we be sure that the situation as we understand it is correct, and even if correct that we will choose an appropriate course of action; errors in understanding or errors in acting (not acting).
http://www.pacdeff.com/pdfs/Errors%2...n%20Making.pdf
http://perigeantechnologies.com/publ...rspectives.pdf
Note the myths:
Not just joining up the dots, but knowing what forms a dot in the first instance, where the meaning of a dot varies with context.