You've had this experience.
Learn what you can from it and then let it go.
The other person is currently in a bar drinking beer not thinking about it or you.
The person thinking about it and stressing about it is you - not them.
So... learn the lessons, stop stressing and move on.
it's difficult but like the other poster said - you've learned a valuable lesson about human factors and CRM.
Bank it and get on with the rest of your life!
Happy flying and safe landings
OH