Oh FFS, people’s lives are being upended and now there is a bitch fight about who said what, who called who a nasty name, who joined first, who’s been in the Middle East longest. Grow up. This thread is about more important things than subjective offense being taken by what appears to be some very fragile egos. Careers have been interrupted, if not terminated. Partners, children, whole lifestyles have been affected with social and psychological trauma that may last for years. Focus on that, not petty nonsense.