Flower, get things in perspective. If that is what really concerns you do you only fly to/from licenced airfields and if so why learn to fly at all? there are times when we need help from others but a more self reliant attitude MIGHT just make you a better pilot. Enjoy the freedoms afforded by small uncontrolled airfields. try bush flying in Africa or Aus and then appreciate the unlicenced aifields in the UK.
Incidentally some airfileds still conform to many of the ideals from contributors above. 2 that come to mind are Fenland and Sherburn