Yartemis, I get the impression you are quite a sensitive soul. I think you do need to think very carefully about pursuing a career in aviation because you are going to have to spend a lot of time in close proximity to a cross section of characters. You may switch instructors when you are paying them but that will be different if you get a job and start line training. It is inevitable that you will be critiqued. One man's full and frank debrief is another man's "ex-military temperament".
I am asking myself how much of your issue is you and how much of it is the flying school but, frankly, nobody who was not there should be expressing an opinion on that. If you want to make a career out of flying then don't look back. You passed, the PPL course is over, and if your perception that you were treated unfairly is correct, and you truly believe that yourself, and you really want to fly, you should just be, as Slopey posted, getting on with it - present national emergency notwithstanding.
Last edited by oggers; 1st Apr 2020 at 19:20.