I fail to understand why Bloggs is terrified of having to share airspace with anyone other that a member of his tribe without the need of a chaperone. Did they teach you that all private pilots are idiots in the airline or did you dream it up yourself?
Furthermore if you have the “pseudo professional disease” of late, rapid fire slurred radio calls, then don’t be surprised if someone gets confused.
My own encounters with rpt at places like YBHI, went just fine. They called clearly politely and relatively early, we just extended crosswind and upwind till they came past and then followed them. Total bugsmasher extra time about eight minutes.
If you can’t plan far enough ahead to get a feel for traffic, announce your intentions politely and negotiate your separation you shouldn’t be flying.