And at NO STAGE have I said you did. But there is a bunch of what I consider to be learned contributors that do. That is truely incongruous to me...
Well, you kinda did by quoting
my text.
I understand the social more not to speak ill of the dead, and to defend those can't defend themselves.
As an aside to this thread, to me, if you're a see you next Tuesday whilst you're alive, you're still one when you're dead. And vice versa of course.
I don't take any notice of posters coming onto the thread saying, 'same old, same old. Nothing's going to change,' I couldn't give a Tinker's Cuss.
I'm gaining a great deal of insight and paying a great deal of respect to the lessons learn't from this. Empathy to anyone who was and still are affected by this, it's not my intent to pick scabs off old wounds. Just learn lessons that will keep myself and my pax safe.