According to his/her profile Citation2 is an A320 driver. Of course that may only be on Flight Simulator X. If he/she is truly a commercial pilot I am seriously concerned at his/her lack of basic knowledge concerning both the profession of piloting and ATC. ATC is not the commander of the aircraft. Would you also like ATC (Tower) to instruct you to go around because in their eyes your approach is unstable (according to your company's SOPSs of course)? The decision to go-around or continue will always be that of the commander of the aircraft.