My old Daddy taught me that when I took the measure of a Man....I should take a full measure, the Good and the Not So Good, and not just the parts I liked....or disliked...then make my decision.
Douglas Bader was a Great Man.
He had his rough side for sure but he also showed indomitable spirit and courage.
Even Alan Bristow chunked Bader into a swimming pool and declared him a "Tin Legged Git" at one time.
Bristol had his own rough side too but those who knew him still thought him a Great Man.
As the video posted by "The B Word" clearly shows....Bader had a softer side than some here are willing to see.
I encourage those folks to get back to their place on the Kerb and put their hands together....and repeat.