Meet on a Monday, marry on a friday, deploy on Saturday, die on a Sunday and state pays pension for decades afterwards.
Live together for 15-20 years, never marry or divorce from previous, deploy and die and partner gets nothing.
Let service personnel nominate person for pension BUT where kids involved make sure they provided for as person married with 2 kids 3 and 4 and then takes up and nominates local stripper as partner night before deployment needs to be reviewed.
Require everyone to review every 12 months.