Daunted by sitting in a jet sim and not flown one before, and for many their first multi crew situation.
The only way to know what to do, as in telling the other pilot to desist, is to either know someone who has been through the process before (and knew what to do), or you have read it here.
So it would seem a preselection process is in place doesn't it...may as well go back to more blatant who you know and not what you know selection like they used to have...oh wait a minute...