I'm no expert but I have found that talking through what you are doing out loud seems to help because you understand what is happening, you can help yourself through the signs of the approaching stall, the symptoms of the stall itself (including wing drop) and the recovery.
In addition it lets your instructor know your thought processes are sound, and helps your confidence no end.
It works for circuit planning too !!
Some people never like stalling but once you've done a load they become just another part of flying.
Please don't be put off by 1 unpleasant element of flying, - and something else which has occurred to me - maybe another instructor might teach it differently so just for this exercise maybe another instructor might be useful ?
cheers
Arc