As far as I am concerned, a BBQ [the process, not the kit] is to provide good food in an attractive social context.
For some it borders on an obsession or a cult or a religious practice.
The ENGLISH weather being such, a BBQ is often a last minute decision, and squeezed in between monsoons. Thus we tend to be simple processors and consumers, rather than devotees, supplicants, acolytes and fanatics.
Relax with a beer, not a dead bear.