I have read, most of your posts Clare, when ever you have responded, to various topics, you are always level headed and people take notice, of your comments.
I knew quite well, someone, will pull me up, sooner or later, because, I have left my comments open for interpretation.
To be honest with everyone, i was so upset to hear and read, about the accident, that i really, had to ask the question, what happened?
Hate to say it, but the tone here is parsonical, presumptuous, patronising, platitudinous, naive and hence prone to being picked to pieces, assuming a readiness to enter the lists, so to speak, there to engage in yet another "war of words". How terribly tiresome. As my father used to say to his youngest, know-all son , me, "Can't you hear yourself Boyo?."