I’m never sure either Bex, I’ve just used the girlfriend’s strawberry scented shampoo (it’s glorious) and have started buying scented candles so it’s getting ever more confusing! I’m sorry for taking it to the level of the playground but if someone comes after me personally in a direct and unprovoked attack then I’m going to respond. I’d never deny I’m guilty of moaning but generally it’s stuff which I’ve got every right to, company treating you like a pariah and targeting my lifestyle personally just for taking a 35 minute flight to work instead of driving an hour and a half on the motorway. That’s the main thing. But seemingly all I did to get attacked was stand up for the junior guys by implying it ought to be more equitable, which it should. Nobody is saying you senior guys should start working every weekend again, but at least giving the junior one or two every once in a while might be nice. The fact that you consider such a thought abominable speaks volumes as Bex says.