I’m in my thirties and this post hit me so hard right now. Got my CPL at 33, struggled around two years to fing a first job. Got an offer I couldn’t refuse, but 2500km away from home with very unpredictable kind of roster. Wife filed divorce papers after my first year abroad and three months after 16th anniversary of our relationship. It’s also very hard to explain to your teenage girl that you’ll probably miss her birthday, won’t be able to come home for christmas and “love her but roster don’t give you enough time to spend with”.