Great advice, thank-you so much. Now that my son is old enough that I do not have to be around all the time (he'd rather I wasn't) then I can look at further flung places, as I have served in the military before (engineer not pilot), as a family we are used to me not always being there. If I had got into RYR then I have no doubt that I would have moved on at the first opportunity but it would have served a purpose.