Quote from the DM reference above:
I've often felt like an outsider because it has been made clear that some resented seeing a woman doing something that they don't do.
'The personal attacks have been incredibly painful. The financial cost and distress to me has been huge. I never set out to deceive anyone. It's been blown out of all proportion.
May I suggest that it is now screamingly obvious what this latest game plan has been all along .