Maybe instead of getting lessons you could do a few "Trial Introductory Flights" to get you accustomed to the sensation of flying. That way once you're acclimatised you can get on with the flying itself and really concentrate on what you're learning instead of the fear of flying.
I am about 25 hours in, have gone solo and heading for area solo. I still feel pretty sick up until the point I'm lined up on the runway to be honest. But as soon as the throttle goes forward it's almost like a release, best feeling in the world.