Leafblower
[ I know both parties in this dispute and normally would drink with both of you but this is a bad look.]
A well intended word of advice: when it comes to the younger of the two in this dispute, best advice: cut all ties, turn and run, run, run....before the mofo burns you like he has every other poor bastard he has before you
It would appear that TNIP did not see through his BS and manipulations until all was too late