I think some of us approach it from the standpoint of a FJ pilot and some from that of an ME pilot. Those are two very different starting points and will lead to very different perceptions of what is good and what is bad.
That is why I don’t pretend to know anything outside of the FJ world. Even then, I am nowadays constrained further into the FJ QFI world.
I’m sure you’re both right and both wrong all at the same time. It’s all relative.
BV