I use Carenado's Archer on FSX with Flight One's GNS add on to provide a G430 display. That most closely matches my aircraft.
As tmmorris say's above. A flight sim is great for home practise to enable situational awareness and procedure development but it is no substitute for the real thing.
Sadly not many 'force feedback' sticks are made now but if you can find one then go for it as you get to trim the force in your hand rather than a tendency for the picture to change if you let go. It's closer to the real thing.
Also remember that sadly Microsoft's air becomes thinner than real air whenever a bank is applied. The nose up attitudes needed to maintain level flight in all aircraft are a lot higher in the sim than they are in real life. That's especially the case when you start flying the airliner modlels.
Good Luck.