One Officer Cadet I had made friends with on my direct entry course (IOT in the late 1970s) told the RAF he intended to get married over the Christmas break (I think his fiance had an "imminent medical concern"). The RAF not only told him he could not get married, but the female flight commander contacted his local Catholic church and told them that his wife-to-be was up the duff! Sounds unbelievable now, but perfectly true. He didn't complete his Officer Training after telling them to stuff it.