Some pilots will be stronger than others coping and communicating under pressure. We have no idea which bracket this team fall under so don't undermine what they have achieved here.
Cabin Crew - in this day and age of everyone thinking they know best via social media, yell, scream and command your customers attention! It will help to offset some of the adrenalin. Because guess what, cabin crew are human and have families, and will probably never see an engine failure either.
There are some class A IDIOTS posting on this forum!