Sorry m'dear but there's nothing there than any informed person who has lived in the region would be surprised about - including the self-belief and complaints of those who didnt do their checks before signing up and those who do sign up and then complain when it isnt just like home and the reality of the region isnt to their taste.
m'dear? How patronising....
Male chauvinism at its best! As stated before, it's 2018. There is no place for this sick , I am better attitude anywhere in the world.