I'm sure anyone considering going to the ME has had a look at the options. I've worked for a major UK defence contractor in the ME on probably the biggest UK defence contract in the ME. They pay well, but there is a reason, the country and the lifestyle are the least compatible with a western outook and most likely to jar with the family; particularly wives. I've also worked in Qatar, for another major defence company, the difference in quality of life is vast, the ability to live increases the cost of living. Different cost benefit analysis. If you couldn't stand the ME in your previous/current employment then it may not be for you, but as ex-mil personnel most could give it a crack and make a success of it in either location. Available through PM for a more frank discussion.