Does anyone know how successful an ex-wife would be at obtaining all your EK pay and contract benefit history, including provident funds for the time you worked at EK if her lawyer served a a court order for the information to an outstation. PM if you have any info. Thanks
That's true. But I'm not. I'm just another poor sucker from the wrong country getting shafted in court again and again. I was just looking for a little help, but I can understand your level of caution. That's also why I wanted a PM. If you have some insight and you can't trust this sight we could meet for coffee in Dubai, I'll show you my company id and I'll even pay.If you think I'm a lawyer after that I'll still pay for the coffee but not the dounut. Gotta go, I'm hearing those foot steeps again!
Mate, your a pilot, you should be clever enough to keep that info from most people in your home country, let me see could that be west of your position. Open a bank account far far away.
I am in the same boat. I have learnt the following:
The country the first paper work is filed in, laws' apply (multi national marriage) EK will reveal your total package and prov. fund to a lawyer in dxb. Some home countries use "grossing -up". They convert your tax free income into a pre-tax gross and your maintenace is determined on this amount. Do not sign a maintenace plan pre-divorce, this remains binding and enforcable after divorce. Do settle ONLY for DHS based maintenace plan on your BASIC only.
I have done the following: Sell all you have and go into cash, physically hold the money. Keep this burried in the garden not safety dep box (no annonimity in dxb anymore) Have no money in any account anywhere in world. Hold the cash. Run up as much dept and personal loans as possible. All goes into the pot + and -. When the lawyers ask about the dissapearing assets, say you where scammed when you tried to buy gold bars in BKK/JNB/Deira. The rest you lost gambling.....sorry.
Go thru the divorce then: Make sure EK HR removed all her details off your records, no med cover. Now pay the w***e what you think is fair. To come after you once she has left dxb is very hard.
Then go on a 14 day holiday/fest to BKK, this will take all sadness away.
I think perhaps that my present First Officer has the right idea...'Why get married when all this free skirt is around, it's a bit like taking a ham sandwich to a banquet.'
You could be lucky like I am, come March 31, no job. Pretty hard to get blood from a stone.................... (oh yeah, a little too late for the 'stay single, lots of skirt out there'.........)
Thanks for the help. If they release my info to a DXB based lawyer is he obligated to send it out of country. This is taking place back in my home country. I have no problem with the debt thing, her lawyer has haunted me for a long time so its quite massive. As for hiding my cash in the garden, I think a matchbox and a few coins would be all I could come up with.
anybody know what happen if you don't pay the full child support amount?
That's just being cheap. You brought them into the world, you ought to pay for them. Anything less is just inexcusable. Your fight might be with your wife, not your children........If you are cheaping out on your children just to teach your ex-wife a lesson, then you deserve not only a court whipping but an arse whipping as well......
MAn i used to say that .I could have 300 kids,but i don't want even 1/4 of wife.
The guys who get married again after a divorce are STUPID.
Support your kids.Help your wife to keep their life on track ,but don't give her a easy life.
And another thing ,if you wanna get divorce,you have to wait her to ask for it.Never ask for it,especially if she loves you and u got busted jumping the fence.She will @#)$*#@)$@#* your life FOREVER,lol.
I think the best option is stay married and do ur tricks outstation and you gonna keep the kids by your side.Because live in the SandPit without family(especially our children) sucks.
dear saywhat,how dear do you give sentences,without knowing the case,I asked something just to have some help and trying to solve a difficult situation like I'm in.It is evident that you don't have any other matters to think about in your life,please refrain yourself from answering I don't think people are interested in your bull.........
Other wives locally will be sure to tell them exactly what you make/made and how much the bonuses are/were! They will band together like a pack of wolves.
No they can not lay their hands on your dxb income from abroad. Your home country might cause trouble when you enter as a pax. On the GD you are OK except Canada. Unless the w***e knows you are in town and calls her lawyers. Always pay something, on a monthly basis so she can not claim desertion. Pay this via a source which can provide a record.
Then go to bkk for that well deserved fest. You will not be sad anymore.
