HomeJames,
Have a think and you'll realise all along my argument has been that there's no need for aggression to solve conflict in the everyday lives we take part of. My example was deliberately over the top (of course there's no link between airmanship and domestic violence!) in response to your statements which appeared to endorse aggression (don't read that as meaning domestic violence), including:
Chances are he will remember that big mean jump pilot in future whenever he has more than one Comm. Pwecious widdle pwincess.
Anyway, let's lay off one another to prevent the character assassination you speak of (have a last dig at me if you want to call it even) and thread drift.