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Wallah 5th Feb 2014 13:55

A Family needs a bit of help.
 
At the risk out outing myself, can I all ask you to support Karen, the Manager at the Abbey Wood Med Centre. Karen and the Med Centre staff have been fantastic in supporting my family and I while I deal with my Terminal Cancer. Karen has now decided to raise money for the charity that is supporting us (which receives no gov money), the Rainbow Centre for Children.

I think it's fair to say that the last couple of years have been bloody hard work and we wouldn't have got through it as well as we have without the Rainbow Centre. So please help out if you can.

I know this is hot on the heels of A-M's death and therefore fully understand if people choose not to give. I don't have a Bucket List, but I am lucky enough to have a family. Although mine is a relatively slow growing cancer I've now run out realistic treatment options and still been left with multiple tumours. Trying to prepare my family for my impending death has been incredibly hard and the Rainbow Centre have helped many families like myself. Their support for my family has been incredible.

Thank you.

Nick


https://fbstatic-a.akamaihd.net/rsrc...PAXP-deijE.gif
Karen Eyers is fundraising on JustGiving for The Rainbow Centre For Children
www.justgiving.com
Help Karen raise money for this great cause.



NutLoose 5th Feb 2014 16:02

:sad:

I don't know what to say, and probably a lot of the forum don't either, hence the lack of replies. Keep your chin up mate, I've donated a little, but everything counts in the end ... It's just so unfair :(

TomJoad 5th Feb 2014 17:06

Wallah,

Happy to donate what I can. I lost my father to cancer while I was going through IOT. Detection and treatment being what it was back then gave us 3 months notice to prepare, come to terms and make our peace. Being just a kid I didn't think about it at the time but if there is any solace in this dreadful condition then the time it sometimes permits can be a gift. I'm treading on eggshells here I don't want to say the wrong thing so please forgive me if I have. I'm old enough now to look back and appreciate the real and lasting value in that time I had with my dad. He even managed to make it to the graduation - he did his national service at RAF Cranwell as an airman and I know that meant a lot to him. You sound as though you have done your level best by your family in your preparation and with help from the Abbey Wood team and the Rainbow Centre. Take some comfort please knowing that your family will benefit from that; I still do with respect to my dad. I don't know how to end this so I'm just going to say sorry If I have said the wrong thing. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Off to donate now.

To anyone else thinking about donating all I would say is that these support agencies really do make a difference, especially to the families. It's a donation well made.


Tom

Capetonian 5th Feb 2014 17:19

My 'pennysworth' is now added.

Best wishes to you and all concerned.

Ron Manager 5th Feb 2014 20:12

Donation made and a bump...

All the best Nick.

smujsmith 5th Feb 2014 20:14

Input duly proffered. Thanks for an honest and eye opening insight. I wish any hope I had for your recovery could come true. Enjoy what you have left and rest assured that you have started an interest amongst PPruners.

My respects Sir

Smudge

NutLoose 6th Feb 2014 11:31

Wallah, I have added the direct link as the one you added goes to a "this may be a Malicious link" post first, so may put some people off, I am saddened to see so few posts considering the readership :sad:


Karen Eyers is fundraising for The Rainbow Centre For Children

I have also just re-read through the A-M's thread and I am humbled to see your support in it for her without mentioning your predicament. :(

Stitchbitch 6th Feb 2014 11:55

Nick, we worked in the same Sqn building for awhile and it was a pleasure to serve with you. So sorry to hear about your diagnosis, donation inbound when I get home. Belive Mrs Stitch / Wallah in contact :ok:

TLDNMCL 6th Feb 2014 15:25

:ok: To all concerned.

Wallah 6th Feb 2014 21:39

Just to say thank you to everyone who has donated so far. Karen has already passed the £1,200 mark! I was at the Rainbow Centre today and they, as we, are totally overwhelmemed.

I've come to terms with my impending shuffle of this mortal coil some while ago. I've had a bloody good time, worked with some fantastic people, done some great jobs, worked on some brilliant sqns, flown in everything from a Canberra to a Typhoon and had even fun to boot. I've got the easy job, just not die for as long as possible (though I suspect that life time membership to the National Trust no longer represens the value it once did).

My wife and kids have supported me throughout my career and illness, and I wouldn't have made it this far without them. They have the hard part and have to keep going once I'm dead. That's where the work of the Rainbow Centre comes in as they are the only real safety net they have to help them pick up the pieces afterwards.

So thanks again for your donations, they mean so much.:ok:

airborne_artist 7th Feb 2014 07:03

The link above goes through Facebook, and may not even work for some browsers.

The direct link is:

Karen Eyers is fundraising for The Rainbow Centre For Children

thing 7th Feb 2014 07:26


I am saddened to see so few posts considering the readership
Doesn't mean that people aren't taking note and contributing mate. Nick I don't know you but when my end comes I hope I can meet it with as much equanamity as your good self.

trap one 7th Feb 2014 08:07

Wallah
 
:D to all.
Given

mckelvey 7th Feb 2014 10:03

Wallah,

I recently took part in a "dryathalon" which is basically not drinking alcohol in January and raised some donations via Just Giving. However, I have also collected cash donations from work colleagues and friends and I am sure "Cancer Research" (the organiser of "dryathalon") won't mind me donating the surplus cash to the Rainbow Centre.

So sorry to hear of your condition and my thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and friends.

God Bless

Wallah 7th Feb 2014 17:44

Just to say thank you again to everyone who has given. Karen has now cracked £1,600 (80%) of her target and the web site has only been up less than 48hrs.

Nick

:D

Wallah 10th Feb 2014 06:37

Just another Thank You to those that have donated so far, especially from those that don't know me (though thanks to for Stitchbitch for strapping me into QOZ a couple of time whilst we were on 3(F) :O). Karen has now reached 90% of her target, which is fantastic.

skua 10th Feb 2014 10:33

Good luck to Wallah & Karen

Wallah 12th Feb 2014 22:06

Karen has now passed her £2,000 target with days to go. So a big thank you to everyone who has helped, not just from my family but from all the families the Rainbow Centre for Children support. Without them we would have been sunk months ago.

Nick

Wallah 15th Feb 2014 19:14

Unashamed bump back to the top.

Karen has now nearly hit the £2,500 mark, which is simply staggering. I know there is more to come from people who have signed up or put money in the pot at the Abbey Wood Med Centre.

Karen gets her head shaved on Monday, so there is still time for one last push (though the Just Giving site will be open for a while yet). Thanks you to all of you that have given so far, the Rainbow Centre for Children has literally saved our lives. Any more donations would be gratefully received (especially from any ex 10, 216 or 3(F) veterans who would like to help out an old sqn mate out ;)).

This isn't for me directly but for my wife and kids when I'm dead. So, thank you once again.

NutLoose 15th Feb 2014 19:36

My apologies Wallah, I was remiss, I intended to keep this thread current and still intend too, I am so glad to here she has nearly reached her target.


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