Medals and Evening Dress
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Medals and Evening Dress
At the RAF Club at the mo (and for the next three nights if anyones around), and I spotted several younger guys outside in civil formal (not mess) dress but with medals - some of them a lot of medals.
What's the protocol for serving officers wearing miniatures with civil evening dress?
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What's the protocol for serving officers wearing miniatures with civil evening dress?
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I'm very hesitant to ask this, though I'm not sure why, but supposing BSweeper had
that were entitled to wear medals, some of them a lot of medals. Could they? Would they?
spotted several younger women outside in civil formal (not mess) dress
I often wonder why folk sometimes get excited about people that are proud to wear their uniform or medals in public. Common sense must sometimes apply. Smart, well behaved people in uniform and/or displaying medals are ambassadors.
I attended a military wedding soon after I left the RAF and, at the request of the "sponsor" wore my No 1 SD. I was approached by an Army major who was clearly intent on having a go. The first (and usual) issue was how terrible "Transport Command" (his words) are at getting people out of theatre for their R&R. He then asked which unit I was with. I said I was retired. There then followed a tirade of abuse about why I was wearing my uniform. I couldn't remember the wording of the regulation so resorted to explaining that I still hold the Queens Commission. Thankfully that shut him up.
I attended a military wedding soon after I left the RAF and, at the request of the "sponsor" wore my No 1 SD. I was approached by an Army major who was clearly intent on having a go. The first (and usual) issue was how terrible "Transport Command" (his words) are at getting people out of theatre for their R&R. He then asked which unit I was with. I said I was retired. There then followed a tirade of abuse about why I was wearing my uniform. I couldn't remember the wording of the regulation so resorted to explaining that I still hold the Queens Commission. Thankfully that shut him up.
some of them a lot of medals.
Courtney - as far as I know a military wedding certainly falls into the category of occasions when it is permissible for retired officers to wear uniform. What an ignorant major
To further muddy the waters, I have a letter from MoD advising me that I may retain my service rank as an honorary title. I retired as a Flight Lieutenant. I'd understood that the honorary permission was for Squadron Leader and above.
Needless to say, I do not take advantage of the kind offer.
p.s Attended a 'do' tonight where the speaker was a very well known PPRuNer and there were people, quite correctly, wearing miniatures with black tie. As a cold warrior of no distinction I don't have any - but I believe many of those who have, were almost killed getting them. I don't like getting almost killed
Hmm, not very clear there - Edited to say that I prefer getting almost killed to actually being killed.
Needless to say, I do not take advantage of the kind offer.
p.s Attended a 'do' tonight where the speaker was a very well known PPRuNer and there were people, quite correctly, wearing miniatures with black tie. As a cold warrior of no distinction I don't have any - but I believe many of those who have, were almost killed getting them. I don't like getting almost killed
Hmm, not very clear there - Edited to say that I prefer getting almost killed to actually being killed.
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Courtney - I was not getting "excited" - and at my age far from it - I was just interested in the protocol of which I was not familiar. If they have got medals then they certainly deserve to wear them proudly, even in pyjamas if they so wish as far as I am concerned.
I just thought it unusual for serving officers wearing medals not to be wearing uniform -nothing more complicated than that. But then, as I originally said, what do I know.
I just thought it unusual for serving officers wearing medals not to be wearing uniform -nothing more complicated than that. But then, as I originally said, what do I know.
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I once had a black tie ball organiser ask me remove my miniatures, even though the invitation specifically stated "Black Tie - Decorations".
The chap who had insisted that the event (nursing graduation ball) be "Black Tie - Decorations" hadn't counted on anyone other than he and the (ex-QARANC) Head of the School of Nursing having dangling tin and it seems he had done it purely as a way to brown nose the boss. Why he was so keen to show he had a pulse when the Queen's Golden Jubilee happened is anyone's guess.
The chap who had insisted that the event (nursing graduation ball) be "Black Tie - Decorations" hadn't counted on anyone other than he and the (ex-QARANC) Head of the School of Nursing having dangling tin and it seems he had done it purely as a way to brown nose the boss. Why he was so keen to show he had a pulse when the Queen's Golden Jubilee happened is anyone's guess.
This thread raised a question in my mind that has not yet been addressed but has now got me wondering. Like Basil I am an ex Cold War Warrior, and my solitary GSM got put away in a drawer in 1973 together with its miniature chum. It was much much later that I attended my first formal dinner of my Squadron Association, having been persuaded to do so by a fellow retiree. The present members of course attended in mess kit and were certainly wearing medals, some of them a lot of medals, TTN! Among them of course were female squadron members and one day they will be retirees, wearing civilian evening wear instead.
None of the ladies that attend our dinners wear medals on their dresses. Now that may well be because they have none to wear of course. My query is if they did would they wear them? That is the question I tried to raise in my previous post. I know that it is supposed to be a question of choice, but do the ladies see it that way, or do they feel that evening dresses and medals don't mix?
Do I wear my GSM at such do's? Well I didn't on that first evening but I do now. I feel that it tells the dramatic difference between my time and those who serve today. I'm proud of what we did, but I'm in awe of what has been done since by the men and women who took our place. I hope that when they in turn attend in civilian evening wear instead of uniform they too will wear their medals with pride, be they male or female.
None of the ladies that attend our dinners wear medals on their dresses. Now that may well be because they have none to wear of course. My query is if they did would they wear them? That is the question I tried to raise in my previous post. I know that it is supposed to be a question of choice, but do the ladies see it that way, or do they feel that evening dresses and medals don't mix?
Do I wear my GSM at such do's? Well I didn't on that first evening but I do now. I feel that it tells the dramatic difference between my time and those who serve today. I'm proud of what we did, but I'm in awe of what has been done since by the men and women who took our place. I hope that when they in turn attend in civilian evening wear instead of uniform they too will wear their medals with pride, be they male or female.
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Chug - The department I work in has regular black tie events which are always stated as "- Decorations" and as far as I'm aware all the ex-servicewomen in the department wear miniatures.
This could be though due to a large presence of serving/ex-serving personnel in the department (emergency medicine attracts us it seems),but the wider hospital trust has a very pro-military stance, with wearing of uniform to work positively encouraged on Armed Forces Day.
This could be though due to a large presence of serving/ex-serving personnel in the department (emergency medicine attracts us it seems),but the wider hospital trust has a very pro-military stance, with wearing of uniform to work positively encouraged on Armed Forces Day.
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In the '60s I once accidentally stumbled into a function (took the wrong door) being attended by what I assume were female WW II veterans - no males that I noticed. They were all wearing evening dress and medals.
Did we meet?
Just stopped by the bar to ask after the gentleman who'd taken ill as I left.
Thank you for a most interesting presentation.
Prior to attending a service reunion last year, I asked whether 'black tie' was to be taken as 'with medals'. I didn't get a reply, so left them at home.
Others were proudly sporting miniatures on their DJs though - including one chap who'd included the Saudi and Kuwaiti medals we'd been banned from wearing after GW1. Not that anyone seemed particularly concerned....
Others were proudly sporting miniatures on their DJs though - including one chap who'd included the Saudi and Kuwaiti medals we'd been banned from wearing after GW1. Not that anyone seemed particularly concerned....
Chugalug - my comment about number of medals was merely to state that whether or not you have a long row, you should stick to the rules. These days I feel a little conspicuous with my solitary GSM alongside young chaps (son included) with half a dozen or more, but I still wear it, and risk the amused glances from the youngsters!
Re ladies in evening dress - there were many ladies from the generation before mine with WW2 medals, but I have never seen one wearing miniatures in (civilian) evening dress. Whether that convention will change is another matter.
I understand that some men now wear an ordinary tie (or even no tie!) with a DJ, so things do change
Re ladies in evening dress - there were many ladies from the generation before mine with WW2 medals, but I have never seen one wearing miniatures in (civilian) evening dress. Whether that convention will change is another matter.
I understand that some men now wear an ordinary tie (or even no tie!) with a DJ, so things do change