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As a very young and inexperienced steward with the worlds favorite how do I go about getting in with the flight deck? I've just returned from a long haul trip and really found myself attracted to the first officer after spending several evenings in his company, however the flight deck always maintain such a stiff and formal attitude. I believe he is attracted to me as well what should I do ?

Could try wearing shorter skirts than the competition - or stuffing hankies in the bra - or a more powerful perfume that would permeate right through the flight deck door?

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Flight Sims, very expensive toys - but real fun to play with!

I think ExSimGuy may have missed the fact that you are a guy (hence the 'steward') but even so I think his recommendations may be the most fitting. Obviously you are just trying get every insecure homophobic pilot on your case or you just didn't know any better. If you are a woman and were just using the broader sense of the word steward then I would suggest that you reassess your judgement of the FO's feelings towards you. Most pilots would jump all over any FA that displayed the tiniest amount attraction towards them unless they were already committed. (Come on! Hold the laughter down there are some out there with morals! I just don't know any....) :)

And all the girlies say I'm pretty fly for a white guy......

So, Fluffy, it seems that you'd like to dispose of the formal attitude, and just keep the stiff one!!

Try giving him a call in his room. You'll get the message quickly enough that way.

Good Call Kaptin!
Fluffy: The worst thing you could do is betray your interest in front of the rest of the tech crew. If he isn't gay he would be mortified and if he is, the rest of his crew may not know and might give him a very hard time about it. Homophobia exists in all professions and the cockpit is a very small place if the rest of your crew dislike homosexuals.
By contacting him away from the others, he has the opportunity to save face if he isn't interested ( and so do you )
Good Luck.

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Hey White Guy - I have been reading your posts all over the Canadian forum..... quite the !!!!! disturber aren't you! I have been a FA for years and I am lol about your comment , "If they are married they won't look at you", please.......... Preflight check - wedding ring off - check.

Cheers

Hey xwardair, your handle says it all! I know all about the likes of you.... Didn't I bump into you in the back of DJC years ago or maybe it was the hotel in Darmstadt? Ah, but I was just a boy then..... you girls changed my life.

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And all the girlies say I'm pretty fly for a white guy......

Hey White Boy how do you know about DJC were you up at the front end or back end you answer should be amusing.......... Wasn't DJC a 47 can't seem to remember.....so do you know the Wardair Girls........I don't know if they would give their time to a pretty little white guy@!@!@!@!@

How come DJC-FUN comes to mind.......mmmm...

Pretty Fly, no, I did not mis the point, I'm afraid I was just "winding up" and perhaps being unkindly homophobic.

Serious note - Good point about being discrete and keeping "low profile" as some more severely homphobic than I could get pretty unpleasant.

Good Luck!

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Flight Sims, very expensive toys - but real fun to play with!

Yeah, sorry about that Sim Guy. I wasn't sure if it was tongue in cheek or not... very subtle.

Xwardair,
I was still in school then but my old man might have been driving. Yes, DJC and FUN were(and probably still are) 47's. As for the Wardair Girls... well it wasn't their time they were offering. I've been flying myself now for 12 years and I still haven't seen anything quite like those days......... http://www.pprune.org/ubb/NonCGI/frown.gif


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And all the girlies say I'm pretty fly for a white guy......

HeyWhite Guy, did your Dad Drive for Wardair? Left or right????????? You mentioned you are flying now - who for, are you flying in Canada.........gee white guy if they didn't give you their time can't imagined what they gave you!

DJC - The "Punch" or was it the McConnache?

Cheers..........

Has anyone looked at Fluffy Clouds profile??? Over in the f/os forum he claims to be a pilot??? Which are you mate? We don't mind giving advice, but we're not heavily into stirrers.
Ta.

Happy Landings!

Well regardless of his status or profile - the advice that we all kindly gave, is still relevant and appropriate! ;)