MSN - Re-adding a contact previously blocked/deleted

[EGKK931]

Hi all,

Recently I fell out with a certain individual on MSN (Windows Live Messenger) and she blocked and deleted me as I did her.

Since then, all has been resolved, and now we want to get back in contact on MSN.

However, I have come across a problem. She has now added me again, but I don't have a clue how to actually accept her because I know she has added me - I get this stupid box (picture in a sec) which I don't understand what to do on or how to accept her thus don't know what to click!

Please help ASAP we need to talk been too long! :}

http://img137.imageshack.us/img137/9315/untitledac1.th.png (http://img137.imageshack.us/my.php?image=untitledac1.png)

So what do I click on that box for christs sake?!?

[NotTheOrganGrinder]

I think all versions are the same, but I can't remember so...

It should be rougly along the lines of Click the Tools...Options menu item, and switch to the privacy tab (if you don't have that one, then search them all until you see..) to list boxes appear, with contact names in them. One is the allowed list, the other is the Blocked. Click the contact you have blocked, and then click the button to move the contact into the allowed list. Your contact should be able to connect now.