There is a lack of respect towards this poor woman I think. Regardless of her decision to do what thousands of others have ... she has a family and people are mourning.
If my mother were to die, I'm not sure I'd appreciate some of the comments posted here that are being directed towards her.
This kind of feeling has been addressed in Jet Blast, thus many similar threads reside there.
Basically it's one of "Lessons Learned" or; "there but for the grace of God .... "