Surely this is not of such importance that 16 pages of PPRuNe has been used up. Our country is going down the gurgler and this SSM and other gay community bitching dominates the debate. I recall being told thirty years ago, by a QF cabin attendant that: "Don't worry about the male attendants being homosexual, most of the girls are too!" It is nothing new. I don't really care what others do, just don't try and convert me.